This Year Is for Personal Growth: Why I’m Choosing It Over Resolutions After a Year of Change

And I’ll be tracking my personal growth journey throughout the year.

Every January, there’s a familiar feeling that creeps in. A quiet pressure to decide, almost immediately, who you’re meant to become next. New habits, new goals, a better version of yourself sketched out before the year has even properly started. A few years ago, I realised that the problem wasn’t my lack of discipline — it was the structure itself. That’s when I stopped making resolutions and started choosing a word of the year instead.

I’ve done the resolutions thing many times. I always start with good intentions, but somewhere between real life, tired days, and unexpected detours, those promises lose their grip. They start to feel more like obligations than guidance. So last year, I chose one word of the year to carry with me through the months ahead. That word was change.

At the time, it felt almost too simple to matter. But that simplicity turned out to be the point. I wasn’t trying to fix everything at once or turn myself into someone else by February. I just wanted a word of the year I could return to when something felt off; a quiet reference point rather than a rulebook.

And somehow, that one word stayed with me in a way resolutions never have.

Change showed up in ordinary moments. The unglamorous ones. The small, uncomfortable decisions that don’t make good stories but quietly shape your life. Moments where staying the same would have been easier than moving forward. What surprised me most wasn’t how much changed, but how naturally I kept returning to that word of the year. I didn’t have to force it. It didn’t guilt me. It simply reminded me of the direction I’d chosen.

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Why Just Choosing Personal Growth Works Better Than New Year’s Resolutions

I think the reason choosing a word of the year works better for me than resolutions is because it leaves space for real life. Resolutions are rigid. Miss a step and it feels like failure. A word of the year doesn’t work like that. On days when things felt messy or slow, I didn’t feel behind. I just paused and asked myself whether I was still moving in the direction I wanted to move in.

That small shift changed everything.

As the year went on, my word of the year — change — asked more of me than I expected. Letting go of things I’d grown comfortable with wasn’t easy. Some decisions took longer than I thought they would. Some moments felt uncertain and stretched out. But the word held. It didn’t rush me, and it didn’t stop making sense once January passed.

By the end of the year, it was clear that this word of the year had done what it needed to do. It cleared space. Meanwhile, it also simplified things. It made certain choices feel obvious in a way they hadn’t before. And once that phase settled, a new question naturally followed: not what needs to change now? But what do I actually want to grow into next?

That’s what brings me to 2026.

This year, my word of the year is compounded personal growth.

I don’t see growth as something I’ve already achieved or figured out. Choosing growth as my word of the year feels more like a direction than a declaration. After a year defined by change, growth feels like the slower, steadier phase that comes next — the part that asks you to stay, to repeat things, to keep showing up even when progress isn’t obvious yet.

Growth feels less about doing more and more about doing things properly.

Now, here’s what growth actually looks like for me after a year of change

After so much movement, I’m hoping my word of the year will show up in practical ways, through small, consistent choices rather than dramatic shifts.

I’m hoping growth looks like learning a new language. Not to impress anyone, but to stretch myself. To sit with the discomfort of being a beginner again. To practise patience on days when progress feels slow, awkward, and frustrating. There’s something grounding about that kind of learning, especially after a year where everything felt in motion.

I’m also hoping growth, as my word of the year, means learning more about my work. Not just doing it, but understanding it properly. Asking better questions. Paying attention to the details. Building confidence through competence rather than urgency. Staying long enough in one place to actually improve, instead of constantly looking ahead to the next thing.

Personal growth. This word of the year also reminds me to build new skills, especially the quiet ones. Skills that don’t announce themselves, but quietly make everything else feel steadier. Better communication. Better organisation. Clearer judgment. The kind of skills that don’t trend, but make life easier over time.

And maybe the biggest area of growth I’m hoping for this year is learning how to remove what no longer serves me. Not in a dramatic, all-at-once way. Just gently noticing what drains me, what adds unnecessary noise, and what I no longer need to carry. Less clutter. Fewer explanations. More space to think clearly and move with intention.

That’s what this word of the year means to me right now. Not accumulation, but refinement. Not rushing forward, but paying attention to what’s worth nurturing and what’s ready to be left behind.

What last year taught me is that choosing a word of the year works because it’s human. It allows for slow weeks and imperfect days. And it doesn’t punish you for changing your mind or moving at a different pace than you expected. It gives you something steady to return to when motivation dips and life feels messy. That’s something resolutions never managed to do for me.

If change cracked things open, growth is what I’m hoping to nurture in the space it created. I’m not trying to rush into another version of myself or perform a transformation on a schedule. I just want to see what happens if I stay present, keep learning, and give my word of the year the time it deserves.

So in 2026, I’m not making big promises. I’m not chasing urgency. I’m choosing personal-growth as my word of the year; not because I’ve arrived, but because I’m curious about who I might become if I don’t rush the process.

And right now, that feels like enough.

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